Surviving Weekly {7.9.18}

by Cristina | Last Updated: July 9, 2018
You’re Going to Judge Me- And I Don’t Even Care
I conducted a little poll this past Friday on Instagram asking people if they thought Rod Stewart was sexy.  You see at a girl’s dinner recently- my friend tried to argue that he was and still is “so so sexy” and the other women and I were just not having it.  The poll came back that 91% of those polled agreed with me.  This left my friend feeling a bit sad and somehow shocked.

The last thing I want to do is make a friend feel bad.  So I decided I would admit out loud, to the world, my most embarrassing crush.

You see, about two years ago I began re-watching The West Wing.  I don’t know if it’s because I’m a mother now or what but somewhere in the middle of Season 1 I found myself being attracted to… Leo! Those who have seen the show stop it right now. 

Stop.  I can feel your jaws dropping.  But it’s true.  So many thoughts.  Rob Lowe is there, why wasn’t my attention being drawn there.  Or literally anyone else age appropriate?  Do I have unresolved daddy issues? Probably.  I can’t exactly tell you why.  The heart wants what it wants.

xx
Cristina 

Think You Can Pass the Marshmallow Test

The answer to this question may depend on your generation.

I recently read an article that said I was not a Millenial, as I had been originally designated, but that I was actually a Xennial.  I oddly felt relief. Not to knock down Millenials, I used to be one of you, but the reputation that “those” people have is not exactly great.  Which brings me to my point, what is this ongoing silent war happening between generations.  I get it we all want to be “The Greatest Generation” we just all didn’t have Tom Brokaw to crown us with the title.

 

A good break down of all the generations can be found HERE.  

Why can’t all the generations get along? Perhaps like this article tells us, we all have pros and cons

So what is Marshmallow Test? The Stanford marshmallow experiment was a series of studies on delayed gratification  led by psychologist Walter Mischel, then a professor at Stanford University. In the study a child was offered a choice between one small reward provided immediately or two small rewards if they waited for a short period, approximately 15 minutes, during which the tester left the room and then returned. (The reward was sometimes a marshmallow, a cookie or pretzel.) In follow-up studies, the researchers found that children who were able to wait longer for the preferred rewards tended to have better life outcomes, as measured by SAT scores, educational achievement and even body mass index [insert eye roll].

What it means for you:
Generation Z (those born after 2001) is apparently way better at delaying gratification than Generation X (born 1965-1980).  Which means all those Gen Xers making fun of Millenials- should probably stop calling the kettle black.

But speaking of Millenials, and not to stereotype here {what everyone says before a major steretype is thrown out}, Millenials are also terrible at this experiment.  However there is a reason for it, and it’s not so bad.  Apparently Millenials are saving less, indulging more and basically throwing away our future in order for a better today.  Clearly- they canot wait to eat the marshmallow.   But- it’s because they are adapting to the environment and learning from what hasn’t worked in the past.  Check out this article HERE.  But also Millenials- bad tippers.

Also- after all of this seems the original Marshmallow Test had a very serious flaw…. it didn’t take into consideration the child’s socioeconomic status.  You can read that HERE.

Bachelor Nation- Assemble! Last week brought us to Richmond, Virginia.  I have decided that the Bachelor franchise either really hates Becca, or they have spent their entire budget securing the cast of Bachelor in Paradise.  In the over 10 years I’ve seen this show, never has there ever been such a boring city selection outside of hometowns.  So what is it guys? To read the whole recap:
 
Random Stuff From Around the Internet 
A list of the 30 most influential restaurants from around the world was just released.  How many have you been to? Check it out HERE

Last Friday was #NationalFriedChickenDay and there was no way I was going to miss out on the fun.  So my dad and I thought it was time to bring out his Cuban Fried Chicken recipe, and shit went down.  I put it on my Instagram story (are you sensing a pattern here- are you following yet?!), and was told that I must share the recipe.  HERE it is, as promised.

50 State Road Trip: Bucket List Places to see in the US: Check this out HERE

Justin Bieber and Hailey Baldwin are engaged. 


Justin Timberlake just dropped a new song.  It’s called “Soulmate” and you can find it rightHERE.

 

TV Addict Updates 
As we have established, time and time again, I watch too much TV.

A Handmaid’s Tale: Season Finale this Wednesday!  It’s guaranteed to blow us all away.

What’s on my list to watch next? Money Heist (Netflix).
Have a suggestion? Let me know

Panther:
female who likes older men.ex: OMG, Julia’s boyfriend is 17 years older than her, she’s such a PANTHER!

“Chasing validation is like putting your soul in a plank position.” 
This week was a little slow so here are two #throwbacks for anyone who needs a solid laugh.
James Corden and Julia Roberts act out her entire film career and try not to laugh! She defies all generations
Jimmy Fallon, Seth Rogan, Zac Efron in “Ew”

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