I feel like I was just complaining to you guys that summer had started, and it seemed like it would never end. Here we are one week to the start of a new school year- and I am ecstatic. Who the F am I?
One of my best friends is pregnant with her first child. She texted me claiming to be in existential crises that she had just ate a carton of ice cream and got fake lashes and is wondering who the F she is!
In that moment I had an epiphany. Well calling it an epiphany is strong- but certainly a realization. Being a mom, at least in my experience, is a series of who the F am I moments.
Hear me out.
First and most obvious, I have gone from loving the summer and never wanting it to end- to having a secret countdown on my phone for the first day of school, 6 more days for those wondering. Who the F am I?
My husband and I just came back from a quick little getaway to attend my cousin’s wedding. We were there three nights and before kids we definitely would have been day drinking, napping, heading to dinner, then to drinking at a club, to late night eating to waking up in time to attend the wedding. We would have been thrilled to learn that a DJ was playing in our lobby every night, and not in complete and utter dread. The first night we were definitely asleep by 9 PM and we even found ourselves waking up to “work out”. Who the F am I?
I spend weekends at soccer games, I can’t remember the last time I bought a nice pair of heels, my pantry is filled with gold fish and fruit snacks, I bake banana bread, and can sing you any Disney song on demand. Who the F am I?
Back to my friend… after I explained how that would be the first of many an existential crises to come… I also explained how all these changes are maybe and probably for the better.
I’m joking… while being a mom is a perpetual series of existential crisis and laundry. I can definitely say it is the best kind and while you are tired and probably not as showered as you would like to be- you get more love than you could have hoped for.
To the moms gearing up back to school- I will see you in Target!
xx
Cristina |